Judgement is Cruel

It's so easy to judge other people. Me too. But I've learned that firstly we need to know the story behind those people to be able to decide whether we will judge them or not.

It's too easy for us to see the result, not the process. Me too. We only care whether the target has been accomplished or not

If we are not satisfied, do we even ask "why?" or "do u have any problems I can help?" instead of grumbling behind or being angry to that person. Well, to tell you the truth, everyone has at least a reason! Why don’t we listen to it first? Then fix the problem together, can’t we?

I’m sorry for all the judgments I’ve made to you all. I’ve learned to THINK POSITEVELY first and that can solve my lust to judge other people.

To all the people who still keep your judgments about me, about what I’ve done, well I won’t let your judgments to stop me from doing things I like. Some good words for us:

When you read, see, or hear something, don't make assumptions. Offer the benefit of the doubt, and be skeptical if necessary. When you make a commitment to communicating and understanding the truth, it can be humbling to realize that most of what we think we know is actually just based on assumptions rather than facts. Keep in mind a Jewish proverb: "What you don't see with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth.

 Just want to tell you: Put yourself first in my shoes. What would you do?